I know this looks hard. It does to me anyway... But take the challenge with me and work on becoming more like Christ by loving as He does. And read this talk by our beloved prophet, President Thomas S. Monson, where he proclaims that "love is the very essence of the gospel and Jesus Christ is our Exemplar." It'll inspire you.
February is the perfect month to work on this godly attribute since Valentine's Day is all about love. And charity is the pure love of Christ.